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The Insufficient Homosexual

Stories from a man who fails to meet media expectations of what it means to be gay:
white, frivolous, over sexed yet sexless, shrill, single, stylish, a clown, unimportant, et al.


Lunes 01/31/2005

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Overanalyzed standard gay porn plots (parts 4-6)


Plot 4: Power

Description:
Man in position of authority coerces subordinate(s) into having sex.

Notes:
-Coercion can run the full range from outright threats, to the knowledge that someone has the �upper hand, � to an eagerness to be dominated.
-While age isn�t a requirement, it probably helps if the man in the position of power is older than the subordinate.
-Unequal power level is basis of sexual charge.
-While most BDSM scenarios fall under this category, depending on who you talk to, it is arguable who exactly has "the power").

Examples:
-Cop pulls over man speeding, what will it take to not get a ticket?
-Drill sergeant catches recruits having sex, he won�t tell if they put out, threesome (or end of story orgy) ensues.
-Water boy "does" the team, Frat boy hazing turned orgy.
-Boss/employee, Teacher/student, Prison guard/prisoner, S&M Master/slave.
-The reverse of any of the above situations, where the man in the previously subordinate position �takes revenge� on the man in the previously dominant position in a sexual manner (IE: My #$&^!!! boss got what was coming to him).
-Bondage stories.
-Discipline/Punishment scenarios.

Classic gay porn video example:
The one where Jeff Striker is a mechanic who tricks two young men into �servicing� him as payment for a car window he leads them to think they broke.


Plot 5: Forbidden


Description:
Man has sex with man/men he shouldn�t.

Notes:
-Involves breaking taboos about whom not to have sex with, specifically social and familial rules of restrictions.
-Guilt can either be totally ignored, or play a part of the story(but never so large a part that it interrupts the sex).
-Depending on the specifics of the story it can include threesome or group sex situations, though these are so common in porn that it hardly seems taboo anymore.
-Depending on the specifics of the story it can include pairings with large age gaps (not sugar daddy tales, but rather young man has thing for (much) older men stories).
-Despite specifying men having sex with men in the description, it includes bisexual porn (Taboos broken: gay means no sex with women, a straight man can only take part in a threesome if it is 2 women and a man, not 2 men and a woman).

Examples:
-Not only did I �fail� and turn gay, but I did it with my fianc�s brother!
-After being a pig all night at the truck stop glory hole, I walked outside and saw my (male relative)�s car parked out in front!
-I seduced my father�s old army buddy.
-Gay man pursues and has sex with a straight man.
-Straight man has sex with another man (either gay or also straight).
-Two men have sex despite the social rules saying they shouldn�t (IE: man and girlfriend�s brother, man and best friend�s father, man and business partner�s high school aged son).
-Two men have sex despite the familial rules saying they shouldn�t (IE: man and sister�s fianc�e, man and lover�s brother, man and brother-in-law, man and brother or other male relative).
-Bisexual male porn stories (IE: those videos with two men and a woman on the cover).

Classic nonporn Lit and/or film example:
What if Lolita were about an obsession with a young man? Which I guess means I should actually be referencing Death in Venice.


Plot 6: Class Fantasy

Description:
Two (or more) men in differing social/economic classes deal with each other in an official capacity, then have sex.

Notes:
-While there are elements of power and taboo, this is different in that there is no domination involved, and while it may be unusual for a rich man to have sex with a poor man, it�s not exactly forbidden either.
-Depending on the view point, many of these stories are either a blue-collar or white-collar fantasy.
-Differences in social/economic level can be a major issue, or virtually ignored (IE: �I had a quickie with a car wash employee� can either acknowledge that the trick was part of the working poor, or it can be just a story about fast sex).
-Race can play a role, but is not the point (IE: �I, an upper middle class white man had sex with my hot Mexican gardener,� is a Class Fantasy, while �I an upper middle class white man had sex with a hot upper middle class Mexican man� is not).

Examples:
-My Porsche had a flat tire in some hick town and I did the mechanic.
-I had a year long affair with my college roommate even though I am a poor student on scholarship and he was a rich legacy kid.
-I gave the valet driver a very big �tip.�
-UPS guy delivers a �special� package to the business owner.
-I (a middle class/rich man) had sex with an employee/someone in a lower economic class.
-I (a middle class/poor man) had sex with an employer/someone in a higher economic class.
-Home owner/hired help (gardener/pool man/plumber/day worker).
-Aristocrat/peasant fantasy.

Classic nonporn Lit example:�
Maurice.

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